It's your watch so if you are happy that's all that matters. 99% of the population would never notice anything off about it. But you are posting on a forum with people who are Rolex fanatics (many purists) so the replies you got should not come as a surprise.
As for me, I have no problem with modifications such as a jubilee on the BLNR or a red date wheel on the original SS PLT YMI but I like to keep it all OEM. Anything aftermarket or altered like the dial I am personally not a fan of. That's just me. Enjoy the watch