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3 October 2021, 12:19 AM | #31 |
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My youngest calls me bro as kind of a joke.
I told him I don’t have a brother. But he still does it anyways. |
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I hope not.
If some kid called me sir, I'd run like hell because I never had kids......that I know of. Only thing worse if they called me dad.
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How about this; Though I met my wife first, my BIL and I have been friends and business partners for 30 years. We've been in proximity for a long time. I have NEVER IN 30 YEARS heard him say my wife's name...not once, directly or indirectly. He has always referred to her as Oneesan (older sister). Japanese respect is a whole other level.
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The other day I was in a bobo tea shop and ordered a drink from a nice (young) lady that I am assuming was a student at the local college (ASU). She called me “Sir” I turned around to see what old man she was talking to.
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My daughters always call me "papi", which is more or less "daddy". it would be very, very weird if the called me "Sir".
And their close friends usually call me and my wife by first name and my daughters do the same to their friends' parents. It's very normal here in (Northern) Italy and it's absolutely not considered unpolite. It was the same when I was a kid some forty years ago with my parents' close friends and some 60 years ago for my parents with my grandparents' close friends. On the other hand, I usually relate with my neighbors with "Sir" and "Madam" unless explicitly asked not to. |
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Gee, we are a lot more casual down under
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My kids call me dad, my granddaughter calls me Granddad, I have never wanted them to call me sir.
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My father is Dad to me.
My son calls me Dad or Pops. Most of my son's friends (~25y/o) call me Mr. Some call me Bill. It does seem weird since I coached these kids at one time. Interestingly enough I've been binging on The Andy Griffith Show (~1964) and I noticed that while Opie is very respectful to the adults he does call all the adult regulars by their first names: Barney, Goober, Floyd, Gomer etc. Exceptions for the those who hold authority: Paw, Aunt Bea, Miss Crumb I think The Andy Griffith Show can be used as good barometer for what's good and wholesome.
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You’re still mistaken. It’s the spelling in Roman characters that’s throwing you off. Brother is Oniisan, or おにいさん.
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No. My kids will jokingly call me dude or bro sometimes, like others on this thread. We have a great time goofing off all the time. Ultimately, we're still Daddy and Mommy.
However, my kids are very respectful to us and others, and every adult is Mr. / Ms. (Mr. Josh, Ms. Laura). Otherwise, they know they'll get corrected.
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We insist on our kids calling adults Mr./Mrs. The challenge was when adults would walk up to our young sons and say, “Hi, Bud, I’m Steve,” (or whatever). A six year old is not an equal in any way to an adult, so he’s not your buddy, and you are not on a first name basis with him. When adults do that it, it undermines parental authority. There was a trend about 10-15 years ago for men (always single guys, from what I could see) calling my young sons “Bud” or “Buddy.” Interestingly, not a single coach or tutor of my boys did that, as they were trying to teach them. The schools all had the kids refer to teachers by Mr., Mrs. or Coach. I noticed that our admittedly old-school varsity football coaches were “Coach Last Name,” and all of the younger assistant coaches were “Coach First Name.” It’s still a title, so it still worked. I also wince when parents introduce me to their tiny tyke by my first name, without any warning. That’s a challenge because I also don’t want to undermine parental authority, and certainly won’t correct a parent in front of his or her child, but that parent just brought me down to the level of a five year old. Again, a no-go. If parents (I know moms and dads who do this) think they are their kid’s equal, that’s their problem. Good luck in the teenage years. Seriously. I still call my doctors (who, I’ve found, keep getting younger as I get older) by their title. They are treating and diagnosing me, and I owe them respect. Respect of elders is, I think, essential for society, as is respect for teachers and coaches by students. |
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When schools were closed because of COVID, my son was coming to my office with me. I have dedicated maintenance men and women in our veterinary hospitals, and one of our guys is nearing 60 years old. My son once asked me why I call him "Sir," when I'm his boss. I let him know that that man is my elder, and has earned, and is worthy of my respect. I think the best thing we can do to teach respect is to show respect ourselves, as well as to be respectable ourselves.
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Yeah, I don't know the Romaji and its not accurate as my examples prove, plus we have a L in English and a L in Japanese so why does L suddenly become R when in English, ridiculous and causes no end of confusion and piss taking.
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Dad or Pops from my four
Oldest two is Dad
Youngest two is Pops. All are adults today and still holds.
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I don't, but I should. haha
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The "Sir" thing in American culture may be unique to the USA.
I have heard it in American movies and always thought it was bizzare. To me it lacks the intimacy and care communicated by "Mum" or "Dad". I don't think you would ever hear it in Australia - which is a very egalitarian culture. Most Australian children are taught to address other adults as "Mr. or Mrs." though that often changes in late teenage when the adult invites them to use their Christian name. I have never been one of those parents who encouraged my children to think of me as "their Mate". I am their parent and I will tell them things in honesty that they need to hear. This does not interfere with a close and supportive relationship.
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So with my parents it was not all business but we also were very clear that he was not giving us options or suggestions and most importantly we were on his time not ours. Last night when I told my kids to go to bed they dragged their feet, begged to watch one more show, and took too long getting off the couch, getting upstairs and getting ready to finally go to sleep. When my father said go to bed my brother and I were in bed before we finished saying yes sir. Oddly is stuck for me but not my twin brother. I haven’t heard him call my father Sir since he left for college and I the military. I’m a different story. My parents were visiting in August. At 44 years of age, in my home, when my dad asked a question I responded with sir. But gave him a big hug and called him dad picking him up and dropping him off at the airport. |
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