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astcell · 29 May 2009, 03:43 AM

3 ex-wives.

Widows Son · 29 May 2009, 03:57 AM

2X. WWW.NoMarriage.com. If you insist on going down the aisle, get a pre-nup and make sure you both have your own attorneys for the paperwork. I didn't know what true happiness was until I got married, then it was too late!!!

astcell · 29 May 2009, 04:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Widows Son

2X. WWW.NoMarriage.com. If you insist on going down the aisle, get a pre-nup and make sure you both have your own attorneys for the paperwork. I didn't know what true happiness was until I got married, then it was too late!!!

Good site:

"When we were changing for the reception after the wedding and I tried to kiss her (and after 3 years of mind-bending sex), my wife of 45 minutes said "No more of that. We're married now."

rolexgiants · 29 May 2009, 04:04 AM

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Originally Posted by JJ Irani

What the hell happened to words like: CONFIDENCE, TRUST, MUTUAL RESPECT and LOVE??

I mean, if you really love each other and have already been together for as long as 3 years, then what's stopping you two from tying the knot?

Zemina and I met in Jan. 1970, got married the SAME year in November and have been happily in love for over 39 years!!

Why do people living in the Western world feel so insecure about marriage?

JJ

im sure u had a FULL head of hair before you got married...... worry and stress i think causes ur hair to fall out...

JJ Irani · 29 May 2009, 04:07 AM

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Originally Posted by rolexgiants

im sure u had a FULL head of hair before you got married...... worry and stress i think causes ur hair to fall out...

In my case, it was just hereditary.....on my father's side - all bald!!

JJ

rolexgiants · 29 May 2009, 04:10 AM

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Originally Posted by JJ Irani

In my case, it was just hereditary.....on my father's side - all bald!!

JJ

not such a bad thing.... no expenses for hair cuts....

JJ Irani · 29 May 2009, 04:12 AM

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Originally Posted by rolexgiants

not such a bad thing.... no expenses for hair cuts....

.......nor shampoos, conditioners, hair-creams, etc. etc.!!

pz93c · 29 May 2009, 04:35 AM

Maybe, but the head wax must set you back a fortune.

OP- Nah, haven't been divorced. Only married the ball and chain a couple of years ago. We've been together coming up on 12 years. No rug rats together. None for me. She has two from a previous marriage.

Yeah, I love the old lady.

Will it end one day? Yeah, probably.

I'm okay with that. It's a good run while it lasts.

It's life, bro. Live it.

rolexgiants · 29 May 2009, 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by pz93c

Maybe, but the head wax must set you back a fortune.

OP- Nah, haven't been divorced. Only married the ball and chain a couple of years ago. We've been together coming up on 12 years. No rug rats together. None for me. She has two from a previous marriage.

Yeah, I love the old lady.

Will it end one day? Yeah, probably.

I'm okay with that. It's a good run while it lasts.

It's life, bro. Live it.

i appreciate ur honesty.... would u change anything if u could.... lets take it back 12 years... would u still have walked down the aisle and married the love of ur life???

NJSub · 29 May 2009, 04:55 AM

What do your friends and family think?

People often overlook that.... Especially in western cultures.

For me, my friends all knew it was right too. And my family loves her.

But I have another friend and we can't wait till they get divorced so we get him back. And the wedding hasn't even occurred yet. lol that sounds mean doesn't it....

Still in the end it's up to you. If you are uncomfortable with the thought of being married just think of how uncomfortable it will to be married. Be honest with yourself or you can't be honest to her.

mfer · 29 May 2009, 05:00 AM

1x divorce, engaged again for October.

so you wrote...

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Originally Posted by rolexgiants

well my back is up against the wall.... i cant keep stalling forever... my girlfriend says either marry me or bye bye.... im 35.. she's 26... marriage makes me very uneasy.... but i do love her so much.... a lot of my friends are divorced!!!!!! ??????????

Well, she is 26 and wants to get officially married. Why? You going to have kids? Is she scared you are going to leave? Talk to her about what marriage means to her. For that matter what does marriage mean to you? If you guys both have the same definition and both want to have that then go for it. If she is wanting to get married b/c she is 26 and feels the time is right, then no dice. Get married b/c you want to, not by ultimatum. Good luck buddy!!!!!

diversified · 29 May 2009, 05:02 AM

Funny, Just about all me relationships last about 3 years too, when it usually comes down to decision time. I always walked with no real regrets, of course sometimes you think the grass is greener on the other side, but overall I'm happy.
Like some one said before, If you do go ahead with marriage, get a PRE-NUP. If the two of you can't decide how things should be split when you get along, imagine what it would be like when you hate each other!

Launch Mini · 29 May 2009, 05:02 AM

You two need to watch Gene Simmons Family Jewels.
They are happily Not-married for something like 20+ years

folexhater · 29 May 2009, 05:49 AM

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Originally Posted by rolexgiants

well my back is up against the wall.... i cant keep stalling forever... my girlfriend says either marry me or bye bye.... im 35.. she's 26... marriage makes me very uneasy.... but i do love her so much.... a lot of my friends are divorced!!!!!! ??????????

What are her qualities? Is she a good cook? Good credit? Nympho in bed? Make sure you know her well enough before you make any decision!

jdc · 29 May 2009, 05:52 AM

taking risks is a part of life, nothing is certain, enjoy the ride and go with your heart, if you worry about the future you will not enjoy the moment
.........and I have been divorced and remarried

Lamone · 29 May 2009, 06:01 AM

I'm divorced but we stayed best buddies.
You're 35, she's 26, you pimp you

ratae1950 · 29 May 2009, 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by pz93c

Maybe, but the head wax must set you back a fortune.

OP- Nah, haven't been divorced. Only married the ball and chain a couple of years ago. We've been together coming up on 12 years. No rug rats together. None for me. She has two from a previous marriage.

Yeah, I love the old lady.

Will it end one day? Yeah, probably.

I'm okay with that. It's a good run while it lasts.

It's life, bro. Live it.

Classic!

Lamone · 29 May 2009, 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by astcell

Good site:

"When we were changing for the reception after the wedding and I tried to kiss her (and after 3 years of mind-bending sex), my wife of 45 minutes said "No more of that. We're married now."

That's messed up

Badfish179 · 29 May 2009, 06:43 AM

Love is blind...marraige is the eye opener! My advice is don't do it! When she says either we get married or I walk...it's a real bad sign. That in and of itself should tell you to run. Listen to your instincts. Humans are the only animals that ignore them. If your instincts tell you to run...then RUN! You say you love her. Don't worry you will love sombody else too! That ultimatum thing should be the deal breaker.

pz93c · 29 May 2009, 06:49 AM

Well, I'll tell you.

I left one gal I had been with, off and on, for 15 years, to be with my old lady 12 years ago. No, not at the altar or anything, just left her.

I have no regrets and I'd do it all again, if I had to.

Life is too short to have regrets. They'll kill you in the end.

Remember, divorce is always a possibility, never a certainty.

Lisa · 29 May 2009, 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by redshirt1957

God knows how I found four women to marry me.

Make that five.

Lisa · 29 May 2009, 07:04 AM

Marriage - no advice here. I am still married to the same guy after 23 years. My kids and I are better off with him than without him, and I think he feels the same. As long as I can believe that, we're in it for the long haul.

2careless · 29 May 2009, 07:36 AM

I'll have my 20 years in 2 months time. After all these years, it's not just physical anymore. The companionship, friendship, and feelings all lump together in one package.
Do you see these in your relationship? If so, then it's good enough.
Besides, if you know 50% of everything you own will be hers in a divorce, will you test it? not for me

ijen0311 · 29 May 2009, 07:44 AM

Marriage is great... I'm just wondering why she's pushing you to do so?

Jocke · 29 May 2009, 07:47 AM

No divorce yet and no marriage either.

The reason is I always get the last words and it use to be: Of course darling.

Jocke

kev5696 · 29 May 2009, 09:28 AM

I'm Divorced, Have joint custody of my beautiful daughter, and a new SD on my wrist! Freedom is not free but worth every penny!

oneillba · 29 May 2009, 11:40 AM

Well, I have been married twice before and I am now engaged now to my Miss Jody. I've learned many things along the years and hope all those experiences will bode well for my number three. They say, the third times a charm!

diablojota · 29 May 2009, 11:46 AM

I was engaged, and got unengaged 4 months out from the wedding. I say that if you think you'll be miserable without her, there's nothing stopping you from popping the question. If anything it buys you at least an extra year!

Gaijin · 29 May 2009, 04:20 PM

I would rather have a stick stuck in my eye than be married.

I have too many friends whose ex-wives are living in beautiful houses my friend's bought with thier new boyfriend while new boyfirend rides thier once Harley. Blaaaaah. Meanwhile my friends are living in studio apartments, eating food out of cans, paying buttloads of money in alimony and child support while seeing thier kids four times a month. More of my friends are divorced/unhappily married than happily married. I'll pass. Thank you very much.

If you have to do it. I have but one thing to say. Pre-nup!!!

Don't ever let her quit her job. You'll get hosed in the divorce proceedings.

and remember this...

Women worry about money until they get married, then they don't.

Men never worry about money until they get married, then they do.

I know, I know... I am a ray of bright sunshine.

Taffi Abernathy · 29 May 2009, 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by redshirt1957

God knows how I found four women to marry me.

Rumor has it it involved the use of chloroform and a handkerchief.

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astcell "TRF" Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Real Name: Robert Location: Angelus Oaks, CA Watch: 116713 Posts: 6,828	3 ex-wives. __________________ SS GMTII "D", TT GMTIIc "Z"

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Launch Mini "TRF" Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Real Name: John Location: Canada, eh Watch: can I? Posts: 6,241	You two need to watch Gene Simmons Family Jewels. They are happily Not-married for something like 20+ years __________________ Something witty to go here. Member # 293

29 May 2009, 07:47 AM	#85
Jocke 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Real Name: Jocke Location: Sweden Watch: A dozen of Rolex's Posts: 22,519	No divorce yet and no marriage either. The reason is I always get the last words and it use to be: Of course darling. Jocke __________________ This message is written in perfect swenglish. What is best a custom Rolex or a Rolex that is stuck in custom? Buy a professional camera and you´re a professional photographer, buy a flute and you own a flute.

29 May 2009, 11:40 AM	#87
oneillba "TRF" Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Real Name: Brian Location: Hamilton, MI USA Watch: My beloved TT DJ Posts: 3,831	Well, I have been married twice before and I am now engaged now to my Miss Jody. I've learned many things along the years and hope all those experiences will bode well for my number three. They say, the third times a charm! __________________ My Trusty TT DJ

29 May 2009, 11:46 AM	#88
diablojota "TRF" Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Real Name: Frank Location: Chattanooga, TN Watch: SS Submariner Date Posts: 4,042	I was engaged, and got unengaged 4 months out from the wedding. I say that if you think you'll be miserable without her, there's nothing stopping you from popping the question. If anything it buys you at least an extra year! __________________ RTFT - Read The Friggin' Thread FcB

29 May 2009, 03:57 AM	#62
Widows Son "TRF" Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Hudson Ohio Posts: 3,555	2X. WWW.NoMarriage.com. If you insist on going down the aisle, get a pre-nup and make sure you both have your own attorneys for the paperwork. I didn't know what true happiness was until I got married, then it was too late!!!

29 May 2009, 04:35 AM	#68
pz93c "TRF" Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Real Name: Brian Location: Republic of Texas Posts: 2,776	Maybe, but the head wax must set you back a fortune. OP- Nah, haven't been divorced. Only married the ball and chain a couple of years ago. We've been together coming up on 12 years. No rug rats together. None for me. She has two from a previous marriage. Yeah, I love the old lady. Will it end one day? Yeah, probably. I'm okay with that. It's a good run while it lasts. It's life, bro. Live it.

29 May 2009, 04:55 AM	#70
NJSub Member Join Date: May 2009 Real Name: Chris Location: NJ, USA Watch: 16610 Posts: 156	What do your friends and family think? People often overlook that.... Especially in western cultures. For me, my friends all knew it was right too. And my family loves her. But I have another friend and we can't wait till they get divorced so we get him back. And the wedding hasn't even occurred yet. lol that sounds mean doesn't it.... Still in the end it's up to you. If you are uncomfortable with the thought of being married just think of how uncomfortable it will to be married. Be honest with yourself or you can't be honest to her.

29 May 2009, 05:02 AM	#72
diversified "TRF" Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Real Name: Jim Location: State College PA Posts: 1,694	Funny, Just about all me relationships last about 3 years too, when it usually comes down to decision time. I always walked with no real regrets, of course sometimes you think the grass is greener on the other side, but overall I'm happy. Like some one said before, If you do go ahead with marriage, get a PRE-NUP. If the two of you can't decide how things should be split when you get along, imagine what it would be like when you hate each other!

29 May 2009, 05:52 AM	#75
jdc "TRF" Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Real Name: Martin Location: UK Posts: 7,023	taking risks is a part of life, nothing is certain, enjoy the ride and go with your heart, if you worry about the future you will not enjoy the moment .........and I have been divorced and remarried

29 May 2009, 06:01 AM	#76
Lamone Banned Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: NYC Watch: ya mawt! Posts: 3,448	I'm divorced but we stayed best buddies. You're 35, she's 26, you pimp you

29 May 2009, 06:43 AM	#79
Badfish179 "TRF" Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Real Name: Snook Location: USS Bluefish Watch: Pam24, Seamaster Posts: 883	Love is blind...marraige is the eye opener! My advice is don't do it! When she says either we get married or I walk...it's a real bad sign. That in and of itself should tell you to run. Listen to your instincts. Humans are the only animals that ignore them. If your instincts tell you to run...then RUN! You say you love her. Don't worry you will love sombody else too! That ultimatum thing should be the deal breaker.

29 May 2009, 06:49 AM	#80
pz93c "TRF" Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Real Name: Brian Location: Republic of Texas Posts: 2,776	Well, I'll tell you. I left one gal I had been with, off and on, for 15 years, to be with my old lady 12 years ago. No, not at the altar or anything, just left her. I have no regrets and I'd do it all again, if I had to. Life is too short to have regrets. They'll kill you in the end. Remember, divorce is always a possibility, never a certainty.

29 May 2009, 07:04 AM	#82
Lisa "TRF" Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: oklahoma city Posts: 15,741	Marriage - no advice here. I am still married to the same guy after 23 years. My kids and I are better off with him than without him, and I think he feels the same. As long as I can believe that, we're in it for the long haul.

29 May 2009, 07:36 AM	#83
2careless "TRF" Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Melbourne, AU Watch: Pepsi Posts: 4,370	I'll have my 20 years in 2 months time. After all these years, it's not just physical anymore. The companionship, friendship, and feelings all lump together in one package. Do you see these in your relationship? If so, then it's good enough. Besides, if you know 50% of everything you own will be hers in a divorce, will you test it? not for me

29 May 2009, 07:44 AM	#84
ijen0311 "TRF" Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Real Name: Jen Location: Jax, FL Watch: Sea-Dweller Posts: 3,977	Marriage is great... I'm just wondering why she's pushing you to do so?

29 May 2009, 09:28 AM	#86
kev5696 "TRF" Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: North Carolina Posts: 3	I'm Divorced, Have joint custody of my beautiful daughter, and a new SD on my wrist! Freedom is not free but worth every penny!

29 May 2009, 04:20 PM	#89
Gaijin 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Japan Watch: ing your back. Posts: 16,179	I would rather have a stick stuck in my eye than be married. I have too many friends whose ex-wives are living in beautiful houses my friend's bought with thier new boyfriend while new boyfirend rides thier once Harley. Blaaaaah. Meanwhile my friends are living in studio apartments, eating food out of cans, paying buttloads of money in alimony and child support while seeing thier kids four times a month. More of my friends are divorced/unhappily married than happily married. I'll pass. Thank you very much. If you have to do it. I have but one thing to say. Pre-nup!!! Don't ever let her quit her job. You'll get hosed in the divorce proceedings. and remember this... Women worry about money until they get married, then they don't. Men never worry about money until they get married, then they do. I know, I know... I am a ray of bright sunshine.

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