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Old 30 January 2024, 11:15 AM   #1
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Should I be offended?

Just wanted to reach out to fellow watch enthusiasts and get their thoughts on a situation that just recently came to light. It involves an idea for a promotional watch that evidently has come to fruition. Somewhat long winded but if you have a moment please read on.

I have been collecting watches for approximately 15 years. I started collecting when my three children finished college and my wife and I had run out of ideas for Christmas presents. She totally surprised me with a watch from an aviation themed company. That was the beginning of going down the rabbit hole. I was so taken by the watch and brand that I soon became an extremely good customer of their New York Boutique. As a result I had the opportunity to meet a great deal of celebrities and the President of the brand’s United States operation. A casual friendship developed and we always exchanged pleasantries whenever we met. In fact, during this time period I had the occasion to dine with him at lunches and dinners that were held in conjunction with their promotional events.

Recently they opened a Boutique in close proximity to my residence and I was invited to attend the grand opening. While at the event the President of brand’s United States operation came over and we engaged in an extended conversation. I reminded him of a previous event where one of the Brand’s ambassador and I interacted. This ambassador, a prominent sports figure, who also lives in the area was present at this opening. While conversing with the ambassador for approximately 30 minutes my friend and I discussed with him the idea of developing a watch to commemorate the ambassadors premier sporting event. He was thrilled with the idea especially when we pointed out a portion of the watch sales price could be earmarked for his foundation. When the United States president of the brand returned to the conversation the idea was discussed even further, even down to the number of watches to be released. Prior to leaving we updated each others contact information so they could contact us when they wanted to discuss the development of this watch!

Imagine my surprise when I received a mass mailing of an email from the brand today announcing the release of a watch commemorating this premier sporting event and not only the ambassadors role but his foundation as well, exactly as we had discussed that evening.

I’m not saying I was expecting to be in the board room, but an email, or follow up with some type of acknowledgment of our conversation would have been nice. Should I be somewhat annoyed, offended, or am I being too sensitive?
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Old 30 January 2024, 12:57 PM   #2
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I would probably give the guy a break because it’s possible that legal considerations could have prevented him from reaching out before the announcement.

If it’s a publicly traded company, that could come into play. If private, legal could advise not to discuss to prevent you from trying to somehow profit from the idea or take action.

I’m not saying that you would, but I’ve been around enough legal departments to know that this type of advice is commonplace. Interacting with you before the announcement could be seen as evidence you were part of the ideation process.

Or it could be a simple case of forgetfulness.
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Old 30 January 2024, 01:05 PM   #3
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I might be mildly offended if they were actual friends of mine and not just acquaintances based on a supplier/customer relationship.
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Old 30 January 2024, 01:59 PM   #4
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Way too sensitive. Are you paid by them? Consult in any official capacity? Any official affiliation whatsoever? In a case like this all you have is personal pride. Go with that.
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Old 30 January 2024, 02:13 PM   #5
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"Hey, nice to read that you went with my idea.

When can I pick up my free watch?"
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Old 30 January 2024, 02:37 PM   #6
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"Hey, nice to read that you went with my idea.

When can I pick up my free watch?"
"Who are you, again?"
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Old 30 January 2024, 07:03 PM   #7
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"Hey, nice to read that you went with my idea.

When can I pick up my free watch?"
A slightly more polished version of this is my answer
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Old 30 January 2024, 08:13 PM   #8
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That sucks I would atleast would want an acknowledgement or some sort of thank you gesture even if it is not monetary because well since its a fundraiser and at end for a good cause.
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Old 30 January 2024, 08:17 PM   #9
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What’s the brand and who is the president?
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Old 30 January 2024, 08:44 PM   #10
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You are too sensitive. They run a business and may not have the flexibility to let customers know in advance.
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Old 30 January 2024, 09:05 PM   #11
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Well well well....welcome to corporate America. I do not want to generalize, but many CEO or Presidents are there for a reason, and got there with a little of this. They are vultures and cutthroat. He more than likely is taking all the credit for this "idea" with not a mention of your conversation. You will not be part of the venture moving forward. If it was me, I would send an email and congratulate him on this new special project and leave it at that.
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Old 30 January 2024, 09:11 PM   #12
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Old 30 January 2024, 09:45 PM   #13
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Understand your frustration, but posting this situation on a public message board was not a wise decision. Odds that the relevant parties won’t hear about this are zero and none of the possible outcomes are positive.

I’d message the mods and ask for a deletion.
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Old 30 January 2024, 09:52 PM   #14
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Reminds me of THE BEACH!!! Seinfeld episode, where they stole Kramer’s idea
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Old 30 January 2024, 10:24 PM   #15
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I would say you’re being over sensitive. I would also think that the fact that this athlete was already a brand ambassador would suggest the idea of a collaboration was possibly already in the works at some level. Furthermore both the ambassador athlete and the president are probably inundated on a near daily basis with “you should do this” ideas.


I’d be more upset, if based on your relationship with the company (prior to this public post) you were not allocated one of the LE pieces.
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Old 30 January 2024, 10:26 PM   #16
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Should I be somewhat annoyed, offended, or am I being too sensitive?
If I were you, I'd be annoyed. Maybe not all that surprised, but yeah, definitely a little miffed.
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Old 31 January 2024, 12:03 AM   #17
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I would probably give the guy a break because it’s possible that legal considerations could have prevented him from reaching out before the announcement.

If it’s a publicly traded company, that could come into play. If private, legal could advise not to discuss to prevent you from trying to somehow profit from the idea or take action.

I’m not saying that you would, but I’ve been around enough legal departments to know that this type of advice is commonplace. Interacting with you before the announcement could be seen as evidence you were part of the ideation process.

Or it could be a simple case of forgetfulness.
I agree, yesterday when I saw the email I was somewhat annoyed, Now I find it somewhat humorous!
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Old 31 January 2024, 12:09 AM   #18
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Is it the Breitling Super Bowl Chronograph, with ties to Boomer Esiason's charity?

https://www.ablogtowatch.com/new-rel...edition-watch/

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Old 31 January 2024, 12:20 AM   #19
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Understand your frustration, but posting this situation on a public message board was not a wise decision. Odds that the relevant parties won’t hear about this are zero and none of the possible outcomes are positive.

I’d message the mods and ask for a deletion.
Not sure that I follow, multiple aquaintances of mine were involved in the conversation and all recall it. I am not seeking any financial compensation and as I said in the original post "should I be offended"?

It is quite possible as others have pointed out that this idea was in the works previously and they could not comment on it. I just find it humorous that numerous concepts discussed were included in the final product
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Old 31 January 2024, 12:34 AM   #20
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You're basically accusing a very Senior guy at this watch brand of not acknowledging your input in the right way, which could put this person (and/or brand, which can both easily be found out (I deleted my post in order not to contribute to you getting into trouble)) in a bad light. If I were that person and would find out that you are writing these things about me, I would probably refrain from inviting you to future events or discussing certain things with you, fearing that they could be disclosed on this forum.
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Should I be offended?

I had a similar situation at work not too long ago. I’m retired now, but I’m still annoyed by it. I managed a large software development / systems application team. I made a recommendation to another team, and it turned out to be a massive success for them and the entire company.

To this day, the folks that implemented this idea never said a thing to me. It was my idea, but I wasn’t even invited to all their celebration gatherings they had for it. lol.

Whatever, I’m retired now. Things could be a lot worse.


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Old 31 January 2024, 12:44 AM   #22
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I understand your feelings. Not worth burning the place down but a quick email/text to say it’s coming would have been polite.

When MLB interleague play first started, I wrote to the owner of the SF Giants and suggested they do a throwback uniform when they play the Oakland Athletics. History buffs may know John McGraw had his New York Giants wear ‘intimidating’ all black uniforms against the Philadelphia Athletics in the 1905 World Series, which they won. The owner wrote back and thanked me for the great suggestion, but said it would be too hot for all black uniforms. A year or so later, despite the heat, they did the throwback uniforms. I didn’t watch it, but read about it and was like “that was my idea”.

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Old 31 January 2024, 12:44 AM   #23
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Their marketing/ PR budget must be tight.

I would be annoyed.
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You're basically accusing a very Senior guy at this watch brand of not acknowledging your input in the right way, which could put this person (and/or brand, which can both easily be found out (I deleted my post in order not to contribute to you getting into trouble)) in a bad light. If I were that person and would find out that you are writing these things about me, I would probably refrain from inviting you to future events or discussing certain things with you, fearing that they could be disclosed on this forum.


My thinking exactly.
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Old 31 January 2024, 01:52 AM   #27
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Looks like the only thing special about the watch is the case back?
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Old 31 January 2024, 06:36 AM   #29
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It's a business and they hear ideas all the time.

Don't expect a pat on the back just because an idea you discussed happened.
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Looks like the only thing special about the watch is the case back?

I’m not sure I even understand this collaboration. A former NFL quarterback, who never won a Super Bowl, doing an LE watch tied to this year’s Super Bowl. He’s not even in the booth for the game. Isn’t that Nantz and Romo? Where’s the relevance between him and this year’s Super Bowl? They should have collaborated with Taylor Swift.
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